“On the days when you feel it is the end, I want to tell you that this difficult situation you are currently in, is a mere redirect. If you want to succeed, accept this as an opportunity, my friend.”
Do you know why we don’t get successful despite trying endless times?
I am sharing the prime cause that is coming in between you and your dreams. This is probably the cause why you feel like giving up is the perfect solution.
We don’t see our dreams coming true and want to give up because we have failed to set the end goal right. What do I mean by that? Let me explain!
“The goal that fuels our purpose has to be strong enough to guide our actions.”
We screw everything up by setting unrealistic and unrelated goals. Hence, once our motivation is drained up in the process, we feel like quitting.
Your purpose will be the most significant factor that will help you throughout your journey. Why do you want what you want? What do you want from the hard work you will be putting in? Ask these questions before you proceed.
I have observed how a large number of people fail to set the right end goal for themselves. Most of us fail at enjoying the process. We want to be rich and famous overnight without burning for days. We want everything that looks fancy on the outside. We overlook the need to have a sound purpose.
There is nothing wrong if you want to get rich or famous. But what is wrong is when getting rich and famous is your prime goal to get started. If you did something only for money and fame, you would want to quit sooner during your days of struggle. Because you won’t see that happening quickly.
You have to have a goal that drives you from within. Only then you will prepare yourself to succeed. Your purpose can be as simple as doing something because you enjoy doing it. Or it helps you be a better person.
I started this Newsletter because I wanted to help people grow and shine in their lives. If the prime reason behind this would be getting famous or having thousands of subscribers, I might not be writing here regularly. ( especially during the initial phase.)
Since my purpose to write is a deeper one, I feel the innate need to help my people every weekend. This serves as the biggest motivation for me.
This is exactly what I want to teach you today. I have learned this hard way, and I want you to learn this crucial lesson and follow it right away.
Before stepping up on the ladder of your dreams, ask yourself why you want to reach where you want to reach! There is always a purpose behind every goal you want to achieve. You need to spend some time with yourself and find that. Everybody has a purpose they can work for their entire lives and never get bored of it. We have to find that.
Trust me, it will be a smooth process. Moreover, it will simplify your life and ensure that you keep walking on the road to the life you want to create for yourself.
Sending courage and resilience your way,
Yours,
Simran.
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